Different People, Different Views

I've come to realize that sometimes we care for the wrong things.

Firstly, why do we even bother about things that for sure, will hurt us eventually? Yeah, that's right, we always say it's out of LOVE or FRIENDSHIP or many other reasons for that matter. Yet, when we look deep down in our thoughts and our hearts, we know that we are actually suffering from how hurt we get from things that we care and treasure so much, that doesn't bring us anything good in actuality. It's plain non-beneficial. Yes, if we count on everything that a person has done for us, of course we feel that we can't repay them enough. Hey, NO ONE, has the right to HURT your feelings or make you feel bad about yourself, unless you allow it. It's unhealthy to take a lot of stings through your heart from someone else. You don't call that a friendship, i call that mental and emotional ambush. Hell yeah it hurts us yet we just sit there do nothing. Real friendship has courage and make diplomatic confrontations without even realizing it's a bloody confrontation. A friend knows how to treasure your heart even though they will say something terribly hurtful. In any relationship at all, the other person should know how to treat you the way you deserve. In return you treat them well too. That's how it's supposed to be. Not filled with ignorance, cowards, oversensitive, insensitive, backstabbing and false personality traits. You might as well get yourself an Oscar if you're pulling that on someone. We care about people in general, that's common. However, people should start realizing they should treat others, the way others treat them and then you'd have a happy lifestyle :)